A blog about personal development and unconventional thinking. Or some shit.
All of us, at one time or another, face some sort of age discrimination. Either we’re deemed too young for a particular activity or role, or we’re considered too old.
Then there’s the additional aspect of being judged by how many years you’ve put in to something, or – even more absurdly – how many years you’ve been ALIVE.
In the past, I certainly received my fair share of unintentionally denigrating comments to do with my age. You know, comments that basically implied:
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One of the biggest factors in personal success is one’s own positive attitude and determination. You hold a lot of power to change your destiny.
But sometimes that’s not enough.
And sometimes, the problem isn’t YOU – it’s those AROUND you.
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It’s often tempting to get as much feedback as possible when you’re developing a project, a service, or some sort of other creative content (such as an article, a book, a photograph, etc).
But remember – not everyone’s feedback has equal value, nor is every piece of feedback actually useful.
Many people will suggest that any type of feedback is useful as long as it’s “constructive”. I don’t disagree with that, but I do think a statement like this is way too broad.
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Recently it suddenly hit me. Holy crap. After quitting my last job as a university teacher late last year, I’m actually technically unemployed!
GASP!
Oddly enough, I hadn’t thought of myself as unemployed at all until that moment. I’ve been far too busy trying to get my own business ventures off the ground. Perhaps you don’t think that counts as being “unemployed”? *crosses fingers*
In any case, I started to think about this word. The moment I thought of myself as “unemployed”, I suddenly felt really dirty. Why are there such negative connotations with this word?
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How often do you hear someone say this: “My life would be perfect if only I had … more money/that dream job/a partner/my own house/a segway …
But this thinking is flawed. It makes your current emotional state constantly dependent on some series of events that hasn’t happened yet (or might not happen at all).
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How often have you told yourself this: “I’d LOVE to pursue my dream … BUT …
1) I’m not an expert
2) I’m too young/too old
3) People tell me to get a “real job”
4) It’s tough in the “current climate”
5) People don’t support my dream
6) What if I fail?
7) I don’t have time
8) I don’t like people
9) It’s “risky”
10) I’m waiting to be inspired
11) I’m planning on thinking about possibly doing it sometime … maybe
12) I probably can’t beat the competition
13) I don’t know what I’m doing!
How long have you been believing these excuses?
The truth is NOW IS THE TIME TO START. Not tomorrow. Not next week. And not when you feel “motivated” or “inspired”.
But I know it’s not that simple. I have lied to myself for a long time too. I have made a million excuses. But it took a few traumatic events before I finally realised the following:
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